Eccentric is Exotic Which Makes It Attractive!

   

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.   

                                    

    

Color, jewelry, piercings, tattoos, and handbags accentuate that which is already there.

Take Risks!

Dare to be different...and at the same time be yourself!

DREAMS ARE REAL!!!

                                                               

The average person would agree that there are certain dreams that rattle them to the core.  They either keep having the same dream, they evoke some sort of emotion, or there is something scary about it (life or death).  What the average person does not know is that dreams are in fact REAL!!!  But what you see is not what you are supposed to get.   

Dreams are your wishes, desires, anxiety, shame, and guilt.....your unconcious is talking to you.  The dream is camouflaged with a story that may not make any sense to you at all.  But if you can unscramble the puzzle, which is the theme, you will be able to figure out exactly what it is you are dealing with in real life at that current time.

I have been able to asssist several people with figuring out what they are going through in order to make sense out of their dreams. Last night, I had a dream and when I woke up this morning, I knew EXACTLY what it meant.

                                                             


For those who do not know me personally, I went to Westchester High School and I was a varsity cheerleader.  I consider Westchester to be home.  So I was dreaming that I was at my high school and upon entering the basketball gym, I saw a bunch of new cheerleaders and only one familiar face.  That person was the captain of the team and she recognized me as well.  When she asked why I was there, I told her I had come back to be a cheerleader (with enthusiasum).  Her response was, you're ALL WASHED UP.  I was baffeled and had attempted to explain why I felt I was still qualified to cheer.  My feelings at that time were in shock because it was my belief that I was not being received well or welcomed back AT ALL.

When I woke up, I unscrambled that dream soooo fast it took me by surprise.  I realized that my dream stemmed from my desire to really want to move back home to Los Angeles.  What I was feeling when I was not received well, are the unconscious doubts I have about how my childhood friends will receive me.  That uncertainty of whether or not things will be like old times, or if I will  be a stranger in familiar territory is secretly eating at me.  I guess it is because I have been away from home for so long, I am questioning if my friends and I will have much in common upon my return.

That was no ordinary dream, and neither are the dreams you're having.  The next time you have a dream that you can't seem to shake...write it down...then ask yourself some questions about your current life.  Is there something stressing you out, are you questioning someone's loyalty, are you ready to move on in your career, is family in turmoil or is money constantly haunting you?  It will be the most perfect time to receive some guidance about where you are at this particular moment in time.
                                                

BUGGING ME...BUGABOO!

Ok, I had to go old school on this one.  Since when did it become ok to harass an ex?  When it's over...it's REALLY over...what do we have to talk about?  Please don't text me, call me, facebook me...or hit me up on twitter or voxer.  If I walked away from you because you BLEW IT....reaching out to me is NOT going to make me like you more!  As a matter of fact...you are making me sick to my stomach!!!!

Why is it that when one person ends the relationship and it is thoroughly discussed, the other seems to think there is unfinished business.  Hmmm....please help me understand WHAT IT IS THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND! 

A bugaboo can be a male or a female and personally...it's disgusting.  WORDS FROM THE WISE...MOVE ON!  Now if the break up was peaceful and a friendship can be maintained...I am ALL for it!  But there are certain situations in which a friendship is not an option.  Taking it to football, the type of foul is going to determine the type of penalty.  An attack from the legs down is going to have a different penalty than a face mask attack....point blank period!  Oh, and don't get mad because the other person is not receptive to having a friendship with you.  It is what it is.  Take it as a lesson learned and GET TA STEPPING (in my Martin Lawrence voice).  If I am wrong about this...holla at me!

DOESN'T UNDERSTAND HOW WOMEN MOVE!

OK....I get that I am a woman because I have a vagina...BUT....I totally do not think or behave the way a lot of women do when it comes to their men. 

Riddle me with this...why is it that women who suspect their men of cheating....go fishing for clues and blatant signs...and when they find out he is REALLY cheating...they get pissed off at the person he is cheating with and not the person they are ACTUALLY in a relationship with...huh...WHERE THEY DO THAT AT????

First things first, if you suspect he is cheating...there is probably a good chance that he is.  So now what...well you need to figure out if you truly want monogamy or an open relationship.  Once you make that decision...take the next step...go ahead and snoop!  Once you find ALL of the dirt you can dig up...and you know for sure he is cheating...DON'T GO APE SHTY ON THE CHICK!!!  If monogamy is what you want and he clearly is not giving it to you...confront HIM about it then toss him the deuces.

Some might disagree and have the perspective that...ummm...after you talk to your man, you may be able to work things out (as long as he doesn't do it again).  NEWS FLASH LADIES.....if you take him back....YOU ARE NOW IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP.....DEAL WITH IT!!!  So, the next time you go snooping and find out that yet again he is cheating on your AZZ....CHECK YOURSELF....YOU SIGNED UP FOR THIS REMEMBER!!! 

Men seem to get this which is why...once a woman cheats on him...he is not taking that AZZ back....lol.  Just the thought alone of what you could have been doing with another man is usually enough for him to be like...OH HELL NO!!!  And if by chance he takes you back...you had better believe he is going to be doing him...if he wasn't ALREADY! 

What's crazy is that A LOT of people really think they are in a monogamous relationship...but the truth is...you are monogamous...but its open for your partner.

Food for thought....if you want monogamy and you are deceived...it is DEFINITELY time to move on.  But if you are cool with sharing...take him back and have that open relationship.  BUT YOU SHOULD NEVER.....TAKE YOUR FRUSTRATIONS OUT ON THE CHICK HE IS CHEATING WITH..............UNLESS SHE KNOWS YOU PERSONALLY!!!  Just keeping it 100%