Riddle me with this...why is it that women who suspect their men of cheating....go fishing for clues and blatant signs...and when they find out he is REALLY cheating...they get pissed off at the person he is cheating with and not the person they are ACTUALLY in a relationship with...huh...WHERE THEY DO THAT AT????
First things first, if you suspect he is cheating...there is probably a good chance that he is. So now what...well you need to figure out if you truly want monogamy or an open relationship. Once you make that decision...take the next step...go ahead and snoop! Once you find ALL of the dirt you can dig up...and you know for sure he is cheating...DON'T GO APE SHTY ON THE CHICK!!! If monogamy is what you want and he clearly is not giving it to you...confront HIM about it then toss him the deuces.
Some might disagree and have the perspective that...ummm...after you talk to your man, you may be able to work things out (as long as he doesn't do it again). NEWS FLASH LADIES.....if you take him back....YOU ARE NOW IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP.....DEAL WITH IT!!! So, the next time you go snooping and find out that yet again he is cheating on your AZZ....CHECK YOURSELF....YOU SIGNED UP FOR THIS REMEMBER!!!
Men seem to get this which is why...once a woman cheats on him...he is not taking that AZZ back....lol. Just the thought alone of what you could have been doing with another man is usually enough for him to be like...OH HELL NO!!! And if by chance he takes you back...you had better believe he is going to be doing him...if he wasn't ALREADY!
What's crazy is that A LOT of people really think they are in a monogamous relationship...but the truth is...you are monogamous...but its open for your partner.
Food for thought....if you want monogamy and you are deceived...it is DEFINITELY time to move on. But if you are cool with sharing...take him back and have that open relationship. BUT YOU SHOULD NEVER.....TAKE YOUR FRUSTRATIONS OUT ON THE CHICK HE IS CHEATING WITH..............UNLESS SHE KNOWS YOU PERSONALLY!!! Just keeping it 100%
True indeed...who granted yu with such insight! Most chicks be completely oblivious no matter how obvious the signs. They are in love with the relationship status more than anything.
ReplyDeleteThanks for responding Manny!!! Well, I have learned great things simply by people watching and learning from my own experiences!!! I also have hella male friends...lol. So this is just the way that I think these days.
ReplyDeleteYup, chunk up the #deuces... I learned this lesson the hard way! Nay-no on the open relationships, this way! Lol
ReplyDeleteThanks for responding Alicia!!! Yea...experience is the best teacher!!! At the end of the day...women have to learn to value themselves over any relationship if they aren't getting what they want. Men put themselves first ALL of the time...which is why they cheat when they want to...they get in and out of relationships when they want to and they decide to marry (ONLY) when they want to!!! I keep saying..women can learn a lot about living simply by watching men!
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